Work Ethic in the Age of Work-Life Balance
- Amanda Amaral
- Mar 8
- 3 min read

Let’s take a moment to chat about work ethic, shall we? In recent years, the importance of work-life balance has surged like a double shot of espresso on a Monday morning. This shift is a welcome change from the days when working yourself to the bone was considered a badge of honor. As a society, we need to find that sweet spot between being utterly indifferent to our jobs and making work the sole focus of our existence. Spoiler alert: it’s not easy!
A Trip Down Memory Lane
When I was 16, I hit the jackpot with a used car gifted by my grandparents. Sure, it was the quintessential “old person car,” but it had four wheels and was mine! However, my parents had a little caveat: I needed a job before I could register it. So, off I went, borrowing my parents' vehicles to scour the job market like a determined treasure hunter. Eventually, I landed a gig at Dunkin' Donuts when I was 17, and let’s just say I stayed longer than I care to admit (cue the laughter). I was committed, showing up every day—though the exact time? That’s a different story altogether!
This work ethic was ingrained in me at a young age, and it’s stuck with me to this day. Do I need to work on my work-life balance? Absolutely! But who doesn’t? That said, I find it a tad challenging to wrap my head around the new generations in the workforce. On one hand, I applaud their emphasis on mental health and self-care. On the other hand, it’s a bit frustrating to come into work each day and feel like I’m playing a game of “teacher Tetris” just to keep our classrooms within ratio.
The Staffing Struggles
At my childcare center, post-COVID, hiring and retaining quality staff has become akin to finding a unicorn. I know we’re not alone in this predicament; it’s a widespread issue across various fields. We’ve had candidates set up interviews and then ghost us like they’re auditioning for a horror film. We’ve hired people only for them to vanish on their first day, leaving us in a lurch. And then there are those established staff members who decide that lunch break is the perfect time to stage their grand exit and never return. It’s a circus out here!
In a daycare or school, where the well-being of children is paramount, we have to adhere to something called a staff-to-child ratio. This means one teacher can only supervise a specific number of children based on their age. If someone decides they’d rather stay in bed than come to work, it throws our carefully calculated ratios into chaos. And trust me, that’s a big deal when it comes to child safety. I feel my head might explode if I have to tell one more potential staff member during an interview, “The children will still be coming to school whether or not you choose to come to work.” It’s a real head-scratcher!
Finding Accountability in a New Era
Do I think we should continue the tradition of being workaholics? Absolutely not! However, I do believe there needs to be some accountability for trained and working staff to show up on time and ready to tackle the day. I could probably write a short novel—or at least a lengthy blog post—about the wild excuses I’ve heard for why someone couldn’t come into work. And you know what? Maybe I will someday! In the meantime, I’d love to hear from you. What kind of wacky excuses have your employees or coworkers given for not making it to work? Let’s giggle and commiserate together!



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